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Search "LifeBuilders West Michigan" and join
our group!
Here are the documents to get you started with your
own group.
Step 1: (Full
PDF
LifeBuilders Overview)
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Do
you know someone whose life is out of balance? |
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Imagine how our entire community could be changed if that person,
and many others balanced these areas of life: Family, Fitness,
Finance, Friends, Fun, and Faith. |
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What
happens when people have faulty designs, foundations, or materials? |
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We
take the same approach to helping people bring balance to their
lives. |
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We
help them establish a personal relationship with god, the architect
of the universe. When they build their lives on his foundations,
according to his blueprint, all the areas of their lives are
changed. |
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OVERVIEW,
INVITATION
TO THE DESTINED MENTORING PROCESS
5 Reasons people get involved in mentoring/discipleship:
At the center of all these:
A living God Who still calls people
today;
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To
ask and explore; Matt16:13, 15 |
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To love and
connect
with God and others;
Matt. 22:37 |
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To
build
on His foundations,
be transformed
at the core, then other areas; Matt.7:24 |
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To
be a disciple;
Matt.4:19 |
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To
make disciples; Matt 28:18-20, 2 Tim. 2:2,
Deuteronomy 6 |
How does God work through the Destined Mentoring Process
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Asking core
questions, clarify core convictions; 1 Peter
3:15 (See “Core
Convictions Questions”) |
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Connecting, Coaching; Heb. 10:24, James 5:16. Place to be honest about
struggles; |
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Building faith
on foundations,
Being transformed; 1 Cor 3:10, Focus on the
core, (See “Topics”) |
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Heb.4:6, Faith Principle, Faith steps, Prayer
Partners, |
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John 14:21 More than academic exercise... |
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Being a disciple,
humble learner;
“I’m not as clear or transformed as He wants me to be”;
1 Pet 5:6,7
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Being equipped
to equip others, Transferable tool, 2 Tim. 2:2, 1 Peter
3:15, 2 Peter 1:15 |
How does this actually work? (Overview of steps
involved)
Typical meeting;
Group:
Review last time, Faith step reports, Explore and apply Topic,
One on one:
Share honestly about left- right hand issues, Pray together
about faith steps...)
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9/18
SCOUTING:
Overview, Invitation.
Then take 4 meetings to cover Intro and Session One;
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9/25
a. STARTING THE PROCESS;
Intro. pgs 1-7, plus “Convictions Clarity / Prepared?” |
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10/2
b. INTELLECT,
Is God really worthy of Trust? 5 ways God reveals Himself |
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10/9
c. EMOTIONS,
Can I trust my feelings?
WILL, What is saved by
faith?? |
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10/16
d. APPLICATION,
TRANSFORMATION How faith
works in real life... |
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10/23
SESSION TWO, FORGIVENESS, PART ONE |
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10/30
.. Forgiveness, part two 11/6 through 12/18
... details later |
INTRODUCTIONS
(pairs
or small group)
9/18/07
Personal intro:
school, work, family, fun? and what motivated you to attend
today?
Discussing with some who have been in the process;
Why has this been worthwhile to
you?
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How has this affected your relationship with God?...your
family? others? |
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How has this affected your ability to communicate your faith
to others? |
PREPARATION FOR NEXT TIME;
9/25
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Read
Destined, pages 1-7,
highlight main
points, Look at Topics page...... |
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Write responses_
_ _ _ _ _ to questions in “Clarifying
my Convictions” |
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Bonus:
“Tools Which Help Process” page,
CD,
“Finding Treasure, “ “Target...” |
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Bring picture
etc. which reminds you of
“Adventure” |
YOUR RESPONSE;
Earl
Thomas 364 9700,
Earl_Thomas@kooltoyota.com
Kurt
Loosenort 498 1700,
kapnkurt@comcast.net |
Step 2: (Full
PDF
Accessory Tools for the Destined Process)
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For leaders and their groups:
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To increase motivation and
understanding about spiritual coaching and the Destined tools and
process; |
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These can be viewed by the leader or
shared with prospective members, as the first kickoff/scouting
session or a mid-course re-focus. |
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They can also be used as outreach
tools for the members. |
Step 3: (Full
PDF Teachers
Guide & Intro to Session 1 "Security")
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INTRODUCTION TO THE “DESTINED”
MENTORING PROCESS and tools |
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This is not an ordinary Bible Study
or small group. God is using the “Destined” mentoring process and
tools to produce lasting life change in many people. |
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God honors the focus on the Person
of Christ, the power of the Holy Spirit, and the personal, practical
faith steps. |
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Some people are seeing more
transformation in less time than they have ever experienced.
This life changing process requires some up-front commitment.
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Step 4: (Full
PDF How
Clear Am I?)
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A SIMPLE TOOL FOR ASSESSING MY
CERTAINTY AND CLARITY OF CONVICTIONS. |
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“HOW CLEAR AM I ABOUT THE CORE
CONVICTIONS OF CHRISTIANITY?” |
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This helps me see areas where I need
God’s help in equipping me to grow and share with others. |
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It can help me to lovingly ask
others where they are in their spiritual journey. It also helps me
to choose equipping processes and tools that will be most useful to
help people understand these core convictions. |
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Some ministries have used something
similar to measure the clarity of convictions of their group so they
can more effectively equip them. |
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These questions have helped me
greatly in pre-evangelism to listen closely to someone’s heart, and
share the truths they need most. They have helped us as a family to
discuss crucial convictions. |
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Their greatest value is seen in
interviewing leaders who are considering the discipleship process. |
Step 5: (Full
PDF How
Clear Am I?
A Personal Assessment of My Certainty and Ability
to Share with Others.)
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Does God really exist? |
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Is
the Bible trustworthy? |
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Will
He adopt me, stay with me, now and for eternity? |
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Will
He free me from the guilt and practice of sin? |
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Does
He give me power to live the way I should live? |
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Can I
be connected to real people who have a real God who helps them in
real life? |
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Can I
share the good news with others, so that their lives are transformed
for now and for eternity? |
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Will
these treasures, these foundations, transform my family, fitness,
finances friends, fun and faith? |
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I
can identify faith steps which lead to transformation? |
Step 6: (Full
PDF Pastor
Recommendation Letter)
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Dear
Small Group Leader, (or one to one discipler) |
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Have
you ever wondered if people in your small group (or others you care
about) have a clear understanding of the core elements of their
Christian faith? |
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Are
you confident that they have a solid biblical foundation in the
areas of salvation, forgiveness, power over sin and authority and
reliability of the Bible? |
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Could
they clearly explain what they believe to someone who is seeking
answers to core questions about a relationship with God? Do their
lives show these principles? |
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If
you’re not sure where the people you care about stand on these
critical questions, I invite you to one of two training events in
January. |
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These
will expose you to a process and a tool that will help insure that
your small group is clear and confident about what they believe. |
Step 7: (Full
PDF Maximizing
the Mentoring Process)
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Maximizing the Mentoring Process 101: Facilitating Coaches Overview |
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One
person transfers to another person: values, information, skills,
tools... who can transfer to another. LB > PROCESS ; Learning,
passing on core convictions in relational and faith environment. |
Step 8: (Real Life Reports)

Last Updated:
Tuesday December 27, 2011
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